Embrace Humility as a Key Trait of Leadership

Ron McIntyre
4 min readJul 12, 2024

A good leader has many characteristics, but acting with integrity and humility in all we do is essential and rewarding. We must continually remind ourselves that success is earned, not bestowed. As leaders, we are always examples to our employees, and by embodying these qualities, we inspire them to do the same. Take, for instance, [insert name of a well-known leader], who consistently demonstrates integrity and humility in their leadership, [provide specific examples of their actions].

Leadership is a continuous journey, not a destination. It’s a privilege we earn every day, not a right we are entitled to. But what does leading with integrity and humility mean in our day-to-day interactions?

First, we must understand their meanings:

Integrity is not just about doing what you say you’ll do, walking the talk, and keeping your commitments. It’s about making your YES a YES, and your NO a NO! It’s about being accountable for your actions and decisions as a leader.

Humility is not just about recognizing that some ideas will come from others. It’s about admitting when you make a mistake and learning from it. It’s about learning from the mistakes of others. In essence, it’s your moral compass guiding you toward personal growth and leadership development.

Here are four ways to act with integrity and humility as a leader:

1) Accept praise but remain open-minded. An excellent way to stay open-minded is to listen to your friends. True friends are not afraid to be honest and give each other straight answers. Senior leaders need the friendship of 1 or 2 close colleagues they trust to tell the truth to them.

2) Reflect on your strengths and understand your weaknesses. Take time out weekly to gain perspective on whether your actions are valuable. Look at the mistakes you have made. How have you treated others? What can you improve upon? What can you do differently? This self-reflection is not a sign of weakness but a powerful tool for personal growth and leadership development.

3) Always seek reasons to praise and compliment others on your team. Be genuine, consistent, and authentic in your praises. A gratitude attitude is precious when building and maintaining work relationships.

4) Always look for ways to help others to succeed and become successful.

Helping others become more successful is a rewarding endeavor that can positively impact their lives and your own. Here are several ways you can assist others in achieving success:

Mentoring and Coaching

Share Your Knowledge: Offer to mentor or coach someone in your expertise.

Provide Feedback: Give constructive feedback that can help them improve.

Encourage Continuous Learning: Recommend courses, books, or seminars that can enhance their skills.

Support Networking

Introduce Them to Useful Contacts: Connect them with people who can help them in their career or personal growth.

Attend Networking Events Together: Invite them to events where they can meet influential people.

Providing Resources

Share Tools and Materials: Provide access to tools, software, or materials that can help them achieve their goals.

Financial Assistance: If possible and appropriate, offer financial support or help them find funding opportunities.

Encourage Goal Setting

Help Them Set SMART Goals: Assist them in setting Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound goals.

Regular Check-ins: Schedule meetings to review progress and adjust goals as needed.

Make Emotional Support Available

Be a Good Listener: Sometimes, people need someone to listen to their concerns and ideas.

Offer Encouragement: Positive reinforcement can boost their confidence and motivation.

Share Opportunities with the group

Inform About Job Openings: Share information about job openings or projects that interest them.

Invite Them to Collaborate: Include them in projects or collaborations that can showcase their talents.

Offer Ways to Develop Skills

Offer Training Sessions: Conduct workshops or training sessions on relevant skills.

Encourage Skill Development: Suggest areas for skill improvement and provide resources to help them learn.

Always Lead by Example

Demonstrate Success Habits: Show them effective habits and routines through your own actions.

Maintain a Positive Attitude: A positive attitude can be contagious and motivate them.

Advocate Whenever Possible

Support Their Ideas: Advocate for their ideas and projects within your network or organization.

Recognize Their Achievements: Publicly acknowledge their successes and contributions.

Create a Supportive Environment

Foster a Positive Culture: Create an environment where people feel valued and supported.

Encourage Collaboration: Promote teamwork and collaboration to achieve common goals.

By incorporating these strategies, you can help others reach their full potential and achieve greater success in their personal and professional lives.

Takeaway: “It is said that it is far more difficult to hold and maintain leadership (liberty) than attain it. Success is a ruthless competitor; it and nourishes our weaknesses and lulls us into complacency. Suppose we bask in the sunshine of accomplishment and lose the spirit of humility, which helps us visualize all the factors contributing to our success. In that case, we are apt to forget that we are only one of a team, that in unity there is strength, and that we are strong only as long as each unit in our organization functions with precision.” — — Samuel Tilden. Remember, your success as a leader is intricately tied to your team’s success.

Leadership Question: Who is the most essential group in your business: Leadership, Employees, or Customers? How often do egos become an issue during meetings? How many times a day do you hear the words, I, mine, or me come up in conversation?

Please reflect on your leadership style and consider how you can incorporate integrity and humility into your interactions. Remember, your success as a leader is intricately tied to your team’s success.

Keys: |Application: Leaders |Status: Strategic |Duration: DNA Embed |Impact: High

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Ron McIntyre
Ron McIntyre

Written by Ron McIntyre

Ron McIntyre is a Leadership Anthropologist, Author, and Consultant, who, in semi-retirement, is looking to help people who really want to make a difference.

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