A Story of Finding Purpose in Life

Ron McIntyre
3 min readJun 21, 2024

I decided to try my hand at storytelling rather than just creating points of activity or issues affecting our lives today. Since I have never been one to think this way, this is an experiment. I hope you enjoy it.

In the bustling city of Arcadia, there lived a man named Thomas. At 45, he had spent two decades climbing the corporate ladder, reaching a prestigious position at a leading marketing firm. Yet, despite his success, Thomas felt a growing emptiness inside him. Little did he know, his life would take a transformative turn.

One autumn evening, after another long day at work, Thomas walked home through a nearby park. The vibrant colors of the leaves caught his eye, and he found himself drawn to a bench by a small pond. As he sat, he watched the ducks gliding effortlessly across the water, their movements smooth and serene. For the first time in years, Thomas felt a moment of peace.

Over the next few weeks, Thomas returned to the park every evening, contemplating his life. He realized that his relentless pursuit of career success had overshadowed other aspects of his life — his relationships, passions, and well-being. He started journaling, reconnecting with old hobbies like photography, and meditating to find inner peace.

One day, he met an older man named Samuel, who often sat on the same bench. They started a conversation, and Thomas shared his dissatisfaction and confusion. Samuel, a retired lawyer, had once been a successful attorney with a thriving practice. However, he had given it all up to travel and write poetry, a decision that had brought him immense joy and fulfillment.

“Life is like these ducks,” Samuel, the wise old man, said one evening. “We often paddle furiously beneath the surface, trying to keep up, succeed, and impress. But real fulfillment comes from finding that which makes us glide effortlessly, finding our true purpose.” Like a beacon of light, his words guided Thomas toward a new understanding of life.

Samuel’s words struck Thomas. He realized he had been so focused on success that he had lost sight of what truly mattered to him. He began reassessing his life, seeking activities that brought him joy and fulfillment.

He started painting again, a hobby he had abandoned in his youth. He volunteered at a local shelter, connecting with people and hearing their stories. Slowly, he began to feel a sense of purpose that he had never found in his corporate job.

Inspired by his newfound clarity, Thomas made a bold decision. He spent several months researching and soul-searching, considering various options aligned with his newfound purpose. Eventually, he left his high-paying job and took a position at a nonprofit organization dedicated to environmental conservation, a cause he deeply cared about. The pay was significantly less, but Thomas felt profound fulfillment in his work.

As Thomas embraced these changes, his relationships improved as well. He reconnected with old friends and built new ones, sharing his journey and learning from theirs. His evenings were no longer spent in solitary contemplation but in vibrant conversations and meaningful activities. He even started a book club with his friends, where they discussed literature and life, deepening their bonds.

Years later, Thomas reflected on his life with profound contentment. He had learned that life’s purpose was not about achieving external success but about finding what made his heart sing. He had adapted to the changes life threw at him and, in doing so, discovered a more profound, meaningful way to live. His heart was full, and his soul was at peace.

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Ron McIntyre

Ron McIntyre is a Leadership Anthropologist, Author, and Consultant, who, in semi-retirement, is looking to help people who really want to make a difference.